If your bra size feels wrong even though it’s the one you always buy, you are not alone. Many people wear the wrong size without realizing it. They tug at straps, adjust cups throughout the day, and wonder why no bra ever feels just right. The answer may not be changing your size completely. It might be learning how sister sizing works.
At Miss Exotic, we design lingerie to celebrate your shape. Understanding sister sizes is a powerful step toward finding comfort and confidence in every piece you wear.
What Is a Sister Size?
A sister size is a bra size that shares the same cup volume as your usual size but has a different band measurement. This allows you to shift the fit of your bra around your body without changing how much space the cup offers.
For example, if your regular size is 34C, you have two sister sizes. One is 32D, which has a tighter band and a larger cup letter. The other is 36B, which has a looser band and a smaller cup letter. All three sizes hold a similar amount of breast tissue in the cup. The difference is in how snug or relaxed the band feels.
This is not a backup plan for when your size is sold out. It is a deliberate, strategic way to improve your fit based on how your body feels.
Why Sister Sizes Matter
Traditional bra sizing suggests there is only one correct size for each person. In reality, your size can shift slightly depending on the style of the bra, the fabric, the stretch, and even the time of month.
A lace balconette might feel different than a smooth T-shirt bra, even if both are labeled the same. You may try on a bralette that hugs just right, but then feel pinched by a structured underwire. Your body is not the problem. The solution is more flexible sizing, which is exactly what sister sizes offer.
With sister sizing, you gain the freedom to adjust your fit depending on the look you want and the comfort you need.
Understanding Cup Volume
Many people believe that a D cup is always bigger than a B cup. This is not true. Cup size is relative to band size. A 32D has less cup volume than a 36D. The cup letter means nothing unless you also know the band number.
This is why sister sizes work. As you go up or down in the band, the cup letter also shifts to balance the volume. A 34C has roughly the same cup volume as a 32D and a 36B. If your bra fits in the cups but feels too loose or too tight around your body, try one of its sister sizes to maintain the same volume with a better overall fit.
The Miss Exotic Sister Size Chart
Here is a chart developed by our fit team to help you identify your sister sizes. Find your usual size in the center column, then look to the left or right to find your fit alternative.
Sister Size Down |
Your Size |
Sister Size Up |
28C |
30B |
32A |
30C |
32B |
34A |
32C |
34B |
36A |
34C |
36B |
38A |
28D |
30C |
32B |
30D |
32C |
34B |
32D |
34C |
36B |
34D |
36C |
38B |
30DD |
32D |
34C |
32DD |
34D |
36C |
34DD |
36D |
38C |
If a bra fits perfectly in one area but feels slightly off in another, this chart will help you make small changes that can lead to a much better experience.
When to Use a Sister Size
You might consider trying a sister size if your band feels too tight or leaves marks on your skin. Going up in the band while reducing the cup letter can give your ribs more room without losing the shape you like in the cups.
You may also find that your band feels too loose, even though the cups are perfect. In that case, try a smaller band and increase the cup letter to keep the same volume.
Switching between bra styles is another moment where sister sizing helps. A push-up bra with firm structure might feel better in a sister size than a soft, stretchy bralette. If your body is changing due to weight, hormones, or life stages like postpartum or menopause, your sister size can offer a smoother transition without needing a full refit.
How to Know If a Bra Fits
A well-fitting bra should feel secure and comfortable. The band should sit straight across your back and stay in place without digging into your skin. The cups should support your bust fully without causing gaps or overflow. The center of the bra should rest flat against your chest. The straps should stay in place but should not leave marks or feel tight on your shoulders.
If one or two of these areas are off, it does not mean you are in the wrong size entirely. It often means that a sister size might give you that last bit of comfort and support that your current size cannot provide.
Sister Sizing as a Style Tool
Sister sizing is not just practical. It is a smart way to expand your options when shopping for lingerie. If you fall in love with a bra and your size is not available, check the sister sizes before giving up. You might find a better fit in a nearby size that offers the same look with more comfort.
You can also use sister sizing to match your bra to your outfit. A tighter band and larger cup might give you more lift and structure for a plunging neckline. A looser band and smaller cup could offer a relaxed fit under a cozy sweater or wrap dress. You have the power to choose what works for you and for your wardrobe.
Designed for Every Body
At Miss Exotic, we know that no two bodies are exactly alike. Your shape may shift with your cycle, your energy, your age, or your mood. You may gain curves, lose inches, or simply want something that fits differently one day to the next.
Sister sizing supports all of these changes. It allows you to stay true to your shape without forcing yourself into a single, rigid definition. This approach is inclusive, affirming, and more realistic than traditional sizing systems.
Final Thoughts
Understanding sister sizes gives you more than a better bra fit. It gives you the freedom to choose what feels good. It invites you to explore your shape with curiosity instead of frustration. It allows you to find confidence in small details that make a big difference.
If your bra feels almost right, it might not be the wrong size at all. It might just be time to meet its sister.
Ready to find your perfect fit? Explore Miss Exotic’s collections with your sister size in mind. Discover styles that feel like they were made just for you, because with the right fit, they are.